Compliment Issues for Men

Derya Kurt
2 min readFeb 11, 2021

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Men who compare lip to honey, cheek to apple, eye to almond, hair to sirloin are a thing of the past. He will never be ashamed to write poems to his beloved ones. No, I’m not a poetic person. Even if someone reads a poem to me, I vomit. My point is that men used to compliment women. I always say, modernism has changed man’s chemistry. Also the word meaning of pride has changed. We are get used to it and immediately accepted this rudeness.

In my entire travels, I guessed that I would generally be able to see and learn about cultural differences and corresponding character changes. But I certainly did not think that I would witness a change in human chemistry. The subject is men, the object is compliment. “What beautiful hair you have … You are beautiful today … You smell so good … Your dimples are so sweet …” Think about the last time you got a compliment. If you don’t have a boyfriend, you can’t find an answer. Most of the time, even your boyfriends won’t compliment you. It is bad, as I said, we get used to it, we accept this; We did not throw aside something indispensable for a woman’s soul like a compliment. The horror of the heat is so unorthodox that we have put aside something indispensable for a woman’s soul, like a compliment.

As I have observed, the people of the civilized nation do not hesitate to say their likes. Did he like your hair? He says your hair is very beautiful. Did he like your eyes? He say your eyes are very beautiful. He’s neither doing it to cringe nor to fall on you. He likes it and it just voices it. It is not possible for someone who lacks self-improvement to appreciate anyone else. For this reason, when commenting on someone, I think compliment is an important issue to consider.

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